explain this for me?
October 30th, 2009
jennifer a asked:
on a cruise, me and this guy hung out the whole entire night talking and just hanging out. before we had even became really close, he had always made me promises which he always kept. towards the end of the night, we had only made out, and he ended up sleeping over. he also kept making sure we would hang out the next night. the next night my friend went looking for him to hang out. he was at the casino, and within 10 minutes he came to hang out with me. we hooked up and everything led to sex which is how i always wanted it to happen, in the moment. i was a virgin, but he was not. after sex, we went to the casino and then i left to go lay down. he said he would come to my room later, and i didn’t expect that he would. well, sure enough, he came back to spend the night. the next night then he came looking for me, but he thought i was with another guy so we ended up not hanging out for the next two nights. we eventually met up again, and i cleared up the fact that i was not with any other guys. he even asked my best friend what the deal with me was. that whole night we hung out, me him and my best friend. he called me his girlfriend on the cruise, but only on the cruise because we live far away. he said if i lived where he did, we’d be together. that night we ended up having sex again which was even more amazing because he physically helped me and was really caring, and constantly asked me if i was alright. he told me to tell him when to stop, and told me to tell him if it really hurt a lot. he ended up sleeping over once again, and he even asked me to hang out the whole entire day the next day. the last night we hung out and then kissed on the lips goodbye. he continued talking to me after the cruise, and i happen to be going to college where he lives. at one point, i thought he was avoiding me so i wrote him a message saying if you don’t want any part of me, don’t write back, but he did. however, now it’s been 3 months since we’ve talked, and he has a girlfriend now.
on a cruise, me and this guy hung out the whole entire night talking and just hanging out. before we had even became really close, he had always made me promises which he always kept. towards the end of the night, we had only made out, and he ended up sleeping over. he also kept making sure we would hang out the next night. the next night my friend went looking for him to hang out. he was at the casino, and within 10 minutes he came to hang out with me. we hooked up and everything led to sex which is how i always wanted it to happen, in the moment. i was a virgin, but he was not. after sex, we went to the casino and then i left to go lay down. he said he would come to my room later, and i didn’t expect that he would. well, sure enough, he came back to spend the night. the next night then he came looking for me, but he thought i was with another guy so we ended up not hanging out for the next two nights. we eventually met up again, and i cleared up the fact that i was not with any other guys. he even asked my best friend what the deal with me was. that whole night we hung out, me him and my best friend. he called me his girlfriend on the cruise, but only on the cruise because we live far away. he said if i lived where he did, we’d be together. that night we ended up having sex again which was even more amazing because he physically helped me and was really caring, and constantly asked me if i was alright. he told me to tell him when to stop, and told me to tell him if it really hurt a lot. he ended up sleeping over once again, and he even asked me to hang out the whole entire day the next day. the last night we hung out and then kissed on the lips goodbye. he continued talking to me after the cruise, and i happen to be going to college where he lives. at one point, i thought he was avoiding me so i wrote him a message saying if you don’t want any part of me, don’t write back, but he did. however, now it’s been 3 months since we’ve talked, and he has a girlfriend now.
do you think he really liked me a lot?
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Does it matter? No, not really.
the like or don’t like never matter the matter if u both will still like each other good luck
it may have just been a cruise thing, or maybe the 3 months of silence he moved on. Ask him what happened with him and you.
sounds like he did back then, but now he has a new girlfriend
I hate to tell you this: you were a cruise lay. He was only interested in you for a while and now that he could have you all the time, he doesn’t care anymore. Get over him and move on. I hope you used protection and didn’t leave yourself open for diseases or pregnancy.
he may have really liked you and being on the cruise together was convienent, but it the real world long distance relationships are very hard to maintain…after the initial attraction he may have wanted to keep in touch , but lost interest when he realized it was not going to get you back in the sack…he has a gf because he wasnt in love with you - but he could have liked you alot then…dont worry about it…move on…and dont sleep with people you dont know and will only see for a short period of time….
no he was just taking advantage of a woman with a tight p****. And just caught up in the moment of being on a cruise and doing what you want to do. You need to go to a school closer to home now because he got what he wanted. And a smoother talker is always going to ask you if your ok. Because thats his way of getting more by acting like he cares. If you were so close you would talk everyday from the day you left the cruise. Move on, if you don’t you’ll run into him one day and it will hurt to see him with someone else because hes going to be treating her just as nicely.
He probably did, for the 4 or 5 days you where on the cruise together…. but single people don’t go on cruises to find a life long partner. so judging by what you said about him being gentle , i doubt he thought of you as just some girl to screw on the cruise. my advice would be for you to move on, and enjoy college.